A bit about me

Who I am doesn't really matter, because this site is all about you. I am not in this for fame or glory. However, I guess you need to know a bit about me.

Looking for the magic wand

I'm in my mid 40s and I live in London. I was not particularly successful with girls whilst growing up. I had long periods without a girlfriend. I just wasn't that confident that I was good enough. Given a magic wand I would have changed a lot about myself. I was holding myself back. And I thought that it was really difficult for an average guy like me to approach, talk to and date great girls. I didn't realise how common that feeling was.

I married in my early twenties and I was divorced at forty because my wife cheated on me. Single again, I was determined to be more successful this time round. So I set about learning how women work. And I decided that I would have LOTS of fun! And I did.

What a difference

In the years around the divorce I went out with more women than I can remember. I was rarely without at least one woman who I could go out with, and sometimes dated four different women over a single weekend.

I practiced a lot. I tried lots of different things. I made notes as I learned, and wrapped it all up in my book - The Dos & Don'ts of Dating.

I didn't change much. I realised that my success came from a stronger self-belief, which gave me a more constructive attitude, that created more attractive behaviour.

It was like turning a light on

I proved that attracting women is not about wealth, or success or looks. All I changed was my self-belief, my attitude and my behaviour. Success with women is internal, not external. It made all the difference to me, and it will to you too.